Landed is a surprising and interesting memoir in which American author Jennifer Lang shifting religious observance and her connection to the Land of Israel now that she lives there permanently. She considers her changing relationship with her Jewish French husband, expresses negative feelings about her Ultra-Orthodox sibling, and identifies as an outsider, torn between the realities of life in each of her homes.
Lang’s story is told in seven sections, from 2011 to 2018. Accompanying each year are unique “chapterettes” that include charming quirks such as unusual fonts, idea bubbles, a few lists, and various symbols. The number seven is also representative of the seven chakras of yoga: Lang is a certified yoga teacher who studies yogic philosophy. Chakras are energy points within the body, beginning with the root chakra (the earthy, grounding spot of the pelvis) and ending with the seventh (the crown of the head and the energy in the space just above it, where bliss resides).
Throughout the book, Lang analyzes her mixed feelings about making aliyah in order to satisfy her husband’s wishes, and she discusses how the move touches each member of her family differently according to their personalities.
The reader learns about the author’s alternating need for stability and flexibility. Her desire for creativity, accomplishment, and alone time competes with the responsibilities of being a wife and mother. As her children grow into independent adults, Lang connects the passage of time to yoga, which stresses non-attachment, the inevitability of change, and the simultaneous need for self-care and compassion for others.
Lang struggles to figure out where she belongs — whether “home” for her family and herself is the United States or France or Israel. She details the cultural and language adjustments and changes in attitude that are necessary in order to live in each place while still remaining true to herself. Lang finds support within her yoga community and her writing group. Their friendship and honesty help her evolve into a more accepting, balanced being.
Landed is a fast and enjoyable read. The book includes endnotes explaining Jewish phrases and some Sanskrit terms of yoga. The author also includes notes addressing the life-changing events of the October 7th massacre in Israel.
Miriam Bradman Abrahams, mom, grandmom, avid reader, sometime writer, born in Havana, raised in Brooklyn, residing in Long Beach on Long Island. Longtime former One Region One Book chair and JBC liaison for Nassau Hadassah, currently presenting Incident at San Miguel with author AJ Sidransky who wrote the historical fiction based on her Cuban Jewish refugee family’s experiences during the revolution. Fluent in Spanish and Hebrew, certified hatha yoga instructor.