The idea of sit­ting down in a cof­fee shop, alone with my lap­top is Sharon Neiss Arbess’s idea of a real­ly good time. Sharon is the author of Me and My So-Called Friends and Get Up, and has writ­ten for sev­er­al mag­a­zines. But what real­ly puts a smile on Sharon’s face are her three adult chil­dren and her hus­band, Gordie.